Ujjain Yatra: Friend’s wedding &
Mahakal darshan
(6th
to 8th February 2015)
Well, this is
the fourth and last wedding of our house; I mean our house in Mumbai, where we
five of us have been putting up together since last 2 and half years. Sweta got
married in May 2014, Lovely in August 2014, Rishika in December, 2014, and now
finally it’s Deepali in February 2015. So, it's like back to back wedding in
one family; family, because, we stay together in our Mumbai Flat more than in our
respective houses, due to our jobs, so we are family in that sense. Cute, I know. But one of the
family members, Lovely got her transfer last Month, to go back to her home town
in Kerala. We all are also trying for our transfers as well, especially the
married ones. ;-) I hope and pray that they get it soon, so that they can start
their new lives happily with full love and commitment.
So, coming back
to Deepali's wedding, we were all set and super exited; to travel to the centre
of the Country. Rishika and I left from Office, to Mumbai Central to catch 7:00
pm Avantika Express to Ujjain. Mayuri, one of our friends joined us at the
station. This was my third journey by a train, and first by 3rd
A.C., so, you shouldn't be wondering if I would ask some silly questions to my
friends, like, why they are giving us towels, 2 bed sheets, blankets etc. ;-) I
know, I had a Child's curiosity, but I loved their explanation as well as
teasing and leg pulling. Lol
The 12 hrs train
journey was quite smooth. We had our dinner, sat for a while chatting and then
curled into our sleeper seats. We reached Ujjain at around 8 o'clock. Deepali's
Dad and Prateek's friends were there to pick us up. Oh let me tell you, Prateek
is Deepli's fiancé. As we already know him, so he is also like a friend by now.
They dropped us to Ruchishree Garden, where the marriage was to be solemnized
and also the reception. Rooms had been pre-booked for us. So, we dropped our
bags, opened the window curtain and got face to face with the beautiful view
outside; vast fields full of green vegetation. Mayuri and Rishika, who had
never seen fields in their lives, got super exited and curious. So what, we had
time at our disposal, and we ran towards it. Aditya, one of Deepali and
Mayuri's friends, also joined us. We walked along the fields; some of which
were corn fields while others were of grain or wheat. It was a real memorable
walk, and I loved every bit of it, for it got me back to my own memories of my
home and it was like getting back to nature, especially getting back to my own
true self. The Mantra- Zamin se jude raho, really has some power to connect to.
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'Welcome back to nature" |
As the marriage
was on next day, we had our entire day, before attending the Reception from
Prateek's side in the evening. So, we decided to pay a visit to Mahakal temple
after getting fresh and after filling our empty stomachs. By then, Sweta also
reached from Pune. We all got fresh turn by turn, after which Prateek gave a
call for breakfast. And the breakfast, Ujjaini special Poha and Jalebi: we just
attacked the entire buffet table and ate like anything. We loved the Poha, and each
one of us, were like “Wow, it's Yumm”. 'Oh don't tell me, your mouth is also
watering?’:P
Mayuri and
Aditya had to wait for their other friends to come, so after breakfast, Sweta,
Rishika and I left for the Mahakal Temple. We took an Auto from the Highway and
drove off for the destination and reached in just 10-15 mnts, and there we
were, at one of the most reverenced and most visited temple of India. I just
wondered when people, whom I had told that I’ll be going to Ujjain to attend a
wedding, would immediately say ‘Oh, go to Mahakal temple for sure!’ Then later
I came to know that in India we have 12 temples, where Lord shiva’s spirit, in
the form of jyoti (light) lives, which is called ‘Jyotirling’ and Mahakal
temple is one of those 12 special temples of India. We deposited our bags,
cameras, mobiles in the security, and entered the temple complex. They have the
most secure safe systems, giving one locker to us, where we keep our own things,
lock it and take the key along. And for it to be safer, they take the picture
of the depositor and later when we go to collect out stuffs, they match it with
our face. And also you receive instant message on your mobile with date and
time of deposition and collection. Cool na! In a country like ours, this was
for the first time that we experienced such a safety. In a nutshell, we cannot
enter the temple with our bags and all, but just ourselves. There was a long
queue now once we had entered, and we had to keep moving in through the serpentine
style iron railings, and it was quite long and never ending; like one end
comes, another would start, and going down and down, later we reached the main
complex, which was quite under the basement. To make the darshan easy and less
crowded, the offering of milk to the Linga is made from quite far, sending it
through some iron pipe, which leads down on the top of linga and the milk keeps
falling proportionately on it. Once we could see the linga from far away, it
was all amazing; it would have been around two and half feet big, and we could
see the red part of the linga, which symbolizes the jyot of Shiva, hence
‘Jyotirling’. The air around felt quite divine and peaceful, but we felt
disappointed when we came to know that no one is allowed to go near the Linga
and touch it for reverence, but looking at it from far and praying was the only
option we had. But never mind, we felt satisfied in that also. Coming out of
the main complex from other end, we climbed the steps to reach outside and came
to the most amazing sight ever; temples-temples all around; all of them
beautiful and neat. Though there were lots of people around, but still there
was peace. We visited some of the temples, sat there for quite a while and then
came out of it, feeling fully satisfied and blessed. And finally I realized why
Ujjain or Avantika is called one of the sacred cities of India.
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"Blessed by the Bholenath Himself" |
Then, we went to
another temple, Harsundri Mata temple, dedicated to Shakti, which was at 10
mnts walking distance from there. It was less crowded, and there’s no need to
deposit our bags, so we took our time to wander around, admire the temple and
take photos as well. It was already about 1:00, so taking the blessings we
returned to the guesthouse.
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"At the abode of Shakti; the power" |
By then we were
tired and hungry, so we jumped towards the lunch buffet, and had the fill of
our gases. ;-) We still had time at our disposal, so we took some nap, before
Deepali, the bride reached at around 3:00 pm. We were called straight to the
Pooja, a ceremony called ‘Namaskar ceremony’ in which the Bride and groom would
sit separately turn by turn and the new in-laws and relatives would give their
blessings and some gifts called ‘Shagun’ to the bride and groom.
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"Namaskar or shagan ceremony" |
In the evening,
we all were ready for the reception; all well dressed in Indian traditional
attire. As my friends would hardly get a chance to see me in suit and make up,
they took full advantage of the occasion and did little make-up on me, thus
turning me to a beautiful Indian lady. Lol I hardly can digest that side of me,
but for friends I don’t mind it once in a while. Such occasions do not come every
day. ;-)
The reception
was grand, the food was yum, people around looked cheerful and above all the
bride and groom looked beautiful and perfect together, standing on dais to
receive everyone’s wishes and blessings, smiling all the time. God bless them. J
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"The Grand Reception" |
After the
reception, we waited for the clock to tick at 12:00 as it was Deepali’s
birthday on 8th. A big yum cake was already ready, and the couple
cut the cake, once Prateek’s cousins fired some rockets into the sky. She
graciously accepted everybody’s wishes and offered chunks of cakes to each one
of us. J
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"A very happy b'day & wish you a beautiful and happy life ahead. God bless ya Deepali." |
The next morning,
as my friends were busy getting ready, Namrata, one of Prateek’s friends and I
went and joined the Baraat procession of Prateek. Here, the groom was all set,
wearing groom’s attire, and riding on a horse, while all the family, friends
and relatives danced on the tune of band. Prateek’s Mom gestured us to dance as
well, and we felt quite shy doing that, though later on we did. :-P
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"Raja ki aayi baraat!!" |
The actual marriage ceremony was solemnized in two parts; the first
was Varmala ceremony, in which first the Bride and groom stood side by side,
facing each other, while a sheet was used as a partition till the Pandit ji
finised the Mantra. And then they put varmala, floral garland on each other’s
neck.
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"the varmala ceremony" |
In the second ceremony, the bride was made to wear ‘Nauvari Saree’ a
kind of Marathi saree, which has to be tied peculiarly like a dhoti; the centre
of sari being placed at centre back, the two ends brought together and wrapped
around the legs. It seemed quite difficult for the wearer, but Deepali looked beautiful
and comfortable in that attire too. Then she was taken to the Mandap, where
Prateek had been already seated. This was the real culmination of their
marriage, in which the Pandit ji recited all the holy mantras, performed all
the rituals. He made the couple stand up in between and take fere, while he
recited the mantras. In this way, finally Deepali and Prateek tied the knot.
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"Soulmates united!" :-) |
The marriage ceremony was over before lunch. We got time to take rest
and talk to Deepali for some times, before she was called once again to go to the
temple.
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"Cheers- all smiles" :-) |
As we had our train at 5:00 pm, we left at 4:30 pm for station. Thus
with beautiful memories of wedding and Ujjain yatra, we are back to Mumbai.
Overall this trip was also A-Awesome! J